Christian Mom’s Guide to Helping Your ADHD Child with Homework
If you’ve ever tried to help your ADHD child with homework, you know that it can feel like you’re trying to herd cats on a sugar high. There’s fidgeting, wandering, weird, but wonderful thoughts, and endless distractions. As a Christian mom, you may find yourself praying for a little extra dose of patience and that the math assignment won’t take three hours (miracles do happen!). Never fear! The cavalry is here. Here are a few practical strategies to keep homework from being a daily battle. Lean on God’s patience when your own is tested by an ADHD child As much as we would like to be Christlike at all times, it can be challenging when your child is bouncing off the walls and asking a million questions about everything except the homework due tomorrow. We all fail to model perfect patience at times, but God is there to be our ever-present help. Stop, breathe, and say a quick prayer for patience and guidance when the world around you feels chaotic. God is working through your child and you can trust that the fruits of your labor and the patience you’re practicing are helping both you and your child grow closer to God and to fulfilling His perfect plan. Find the balance between structure and flexibility Children with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) thrive on routine but they also need breaks. Set up a predictable homework time but keep it somewhat flexible. If your child needs to get up and move every ten minutes, just build that into the routine. Posting a daily schedule in a visible place will help your child know what to expect and allow them to digest their day in manageable chunks. Use fidgets to keep hands busy Keeping your ADHD child’s hands busy is key [...]