Personal Development

Overscheduled and Overwhelmed: Strategies to Overcome Stress

2025-04-22T07:07:40+00:00February 20th, 2023|Featured, Individual Counseling, Personal Development|

Our fast-paced world spurs us to hurry and hustle. In real and virtual life, we witness people living what they call their best lives. Sometimes, we attempt to keep up with them instead of seeking God for what He has in store for us, causing us to experience stress. While He has certainly created us with dreams, which we may have fashioned into noteworthy goals, we become overloaded and less effective when we try to match the world’s pace. When we do, we miss ourselves and the value that God wants to add to our lives when we prioritize Him. Carrollton Christian Counseling can help you slow down, refocus, and realign your life with God’s purpose and peace. Fueling frustration. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. – Matthew 6:33, ESV The challenge for us is that we chase “these things,” putting our pursuit into reverse order. Instead of God first, we place Him at the bottom of our endless to-do list. We crave His peace and joy, but we imagine finding it in a hustle-and-grind mindset. Essentially, we can become too occupied to enjoy God and too exhausted to savor His rest. That can induce anxiety, further compounding the effects of the kind of stress that leads to burnout. Stress takes its toll on our physical health in both small and significant ways. However, the wear and tear that it leverages on our mental and emotional states may not be as noticeable but are equally as important. It causes disenchantment when we feel that we are not experiencing the full life that we know Jesus promised (John 10:10). Rarely, do we pause to rest and reassess, preferring to press forward. Instead of bringing this tension between [...]

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Self-Growth for Christians: Should You Have Ambitions?

2025-04-22T06:37:29+00:00December 23rd, 2022|Featured, Individual Counseling, Personal Development, Spiritual Development|

Self-growth is a process where individuals are encouraged to identify their strengths and weaknesses, including in their day-to-day habits and attitudes, for purposes of self-improvement to reach certain goals or to realize certain dreams. The underlying premise is that there is always room to become a better version of your current self. Carrollton Christian Counseling can guide you in this journey of self-improvement, helping you work through challenges and develop a healthier mindset. While there is nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself, there is a type of pressure that comes with knowing that even at your best version the world still thinks you can do better, have better, do more, or have more. Because it prioritizes the self, the pursuit of self-growth can easily turn people into self-centered, egotistical, and individualistic beings whose sole purpose is to get to the top. In a world that places increased emphasis on the self, it is easy for a Christian to be caught in a moral dilemma of how to pursue personal goals and achievements while also living the selfless and altruistic life that the Bible encourages. You may find yourself wondering where one must draw the line between following the gospel and improving oneself for purposes of fitting in with the demands of the modern world. As a Christian, it is of vital importance to know that there is no situation that the Bible does not guide on. The topic of self-growth for Christians is, therefore, best understood if discussed within the confines of Romans 12:2 (NIV) which says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will.” What this means [...]

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