Experts frequently emphasize the importance of communication in relationships. Just because communication is a cornerstone of quality relationships doesn’t mean that it can be fun. Incorporating communication games into your routine can make the process of communication both enjoyable and effective. They can also help you improve your communication skills and enhance your relationships.
Fun Communication Games
Two truths and a lie: Couple’s version
Share three statements about yourself – two of those statements being truthful and one being a lie. Then your partner must guess which statement is a lie. This game encourages sharing personal stories and helps you learn more about each other in a fun way.
For new couples, this can be a great way to get to know each other and improve communication. If you have been with your partner for a while, consider making the statements more about how you feel or dreams you might have since they are likely to know a lot about your past.
The question game
Take turns asking each other intriguing or thought-provoking questions. These questions can range from “What is your favorite childhood memory?” to “If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would it be?” The goal is to spark meaningful conversations and discover new things about each other. You can also learn more about your partner’s career or personal goals and priorities through this game.
Compliment tag
Just like in the traditional game of Tag, you and your partner will take turns tagging each other. But in this version of the game, you will be giving each other genuine compliments rather than a tag on the arm. This game will boost positivity and reinforce appreciation and affection in the relationship.
The compliments can be general or specific. Mention how much you like their new shirt or go into detail about how much you appreciate the way they make you feel. The most important element of this game is that each partner leaves the interaction feeling loved and appreciated.
Scripture sharing challenge
In this game, each partner selects a passage of Scripture that resonates with them and shares it with their partner. After sharing the verse, explain why it is significant to you and how it applies to your life. Your partner listens and may offer their own interpretation of the verse or how it might relate to their own experiences.
Do not use this time for passive-aggressive accusations. Remember to use a Scripture that relates to you, not to accuse your partner.
The silent game
A lot of communication between couples happens non-verbally. You can improve and practice these skills by playing the silent game. It’s a simple concept that can yield profound results. Sit in a comfortable place and face each other. Look into each other’s eyes and do not speak. Stare at each other for five minutes silently. Try not to break the silence and when the time ends, discuss what you experienced.
Active listening memory
Practice hearing what your partner is saying. Set a timer for three minutes and allow one partner to talk about anything and everything they want to talk about. Try to keep the topics lighthearted. This is not the time to argue or deal with relationship issues. You can discuss your favorite movie or the new restaurant you want to try.
Your partner is supposed to stay silent for the duration of your turn. After the three minutes are over, your partner will then try to retell all that you have just shared. This is not a time to add commentary or bias, but to attempt to accurately retell what they have heard. You might be amazed at how much you miss when your partner talks.
The emoji game
In this playful game, one partner uses a series of emojis to convey a message, phrase, or story and the other partner must guess what it represents. For example, using a combination of the sun, sand bucket, and palm tree emojis might indicate that your partner wants to go to the beach. Once the other partner has guessed, discuss the interpretation and reveal any additional context or meaning. One benefit of this game is that it can be played in person or remotely.
Incorporating fun communication games into your relationship can significantly enhance understanding and connection. While these activities are beneficial, they are not a substitute for professional guidance.
Christian counseling to improve communication
If communication issues persist or become more complex, seeking therapy can provide valuable support. A licensed therapist can offer tools and strategies tailored to your specific needs. If this would be valuable to you, don’t hesitate to contact our office to schedule an appointment.
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